Tell me about yourself: My name is Sarah Kilpela. I'm an occupational therapy graduate student and currently completing my final clinical rotations in Marquette for my masters degree. I completed my undergraduate degree at Northern Michigan University and was involved with Catholic Campus Ministry in my final years, where I met my husband, Andrew. We were married this past August at St. Peter Cathedral. I enjoy hanging out with family and friends, cross country skiing, running, and practically any outdoor activity.
Do you have a favorite saint? One of my favorite saints is St. Faustina. She was so persistent in following God's will despite the challenges she faced. Through her visions of the Lord, the Chaplet of Divine Mercy was inspired. I love the divine mercy image inscribed with "Jesus, I trust in you."
What is the best piece of advice that you received before entering the sacrament of marriage? Andrew and I are very fortunate to have many faith-filled people in our life. During our marriage preparation, we were told that we will never be the other person's “everything.” Only Jesus can be our “everything,” and there is a place in our heart that only He can fill. When we keep God at the center of our relationship, we will grow more deeply together as husband and wife and handle the ups and downs of life better. A good practical tip was: “don't keep track of a tally of who has done more work, chores, or favors. Serve each other lovingly.”
What is an issue that the Catholic Church supports that you are passionate about and why that issue in particular? I am passionate about the Church's belief that life begins at conception, and that it should be protected. No other human rights exist without the right to life. The turbulent culture uses euphemisms like “woman's healthcare” to cover up the grave act of abortion. Furthermore, the anti-life stance is often positively portrayed in the media; it denies the undeniable harm that it has on families and society. I believe we are called to be voices for the voiceless and support pregnant women in difficult, and all, situations. I also think it is important for mothers who have had an abortion to find healing and experience the Lord's mercy. It is encouraging to see programs and support groups for women and men in the Catholic churches.
How have you continued to grow in faith during the pandemic? Over the past year, my life has experienced a slowdown. I have been forced to pause the distractions of a busy daily schedule and contemplate the reality of our times. While fear and uncertainty circulate, I find much consolation from these words: “You will never know internal peace until you give up the illusion of control.” Over the last year, I have learned to trust in God more, tell him my worries, and feel peace that he is besides us always. The pandemic also forced me to think about the reality of death. Am I ready to meet Jesus face-to-face at the end of my life? We never know the day or hour of our death. This reality has encouraged me to continue to take my faith seriously and grow in relationship with the Lord.
Do you have any advice for Catholics young and old? Invite others to join you for Mass. Grow in deeper relationship with fellow parish members and friends. I have found that striving towards holiness is best done with the company of others. Creating groups to keep each other accountable along their faith journey and authentically share the ups and downs can be a true blessing.